TW: sexual assault
It is difficult to put into words just how powerful and raw this book is. Know My Name poignantly details the trauma caused by sexual assault and how it floods over into every aspect of daily life. Know My Name explains the exhausting and invasive process of fighting for justice.
In 2016, Chanel Miller’s victim impact statement was published online under the pseudonym ‘Emily Doe’ and within four days, it had been read by 11 million people. Know My Name is a memoir that gives a first-hand account of the Stanford Sexual Assault Case and shows the resilience of Chanel Miller as she learns how to live a full life again in the wake of suffering.
Know My Name exposes the patriarchal systems that are engraved within the justice system that too often fails the people who need help the most and protects sexual assailants.
“My pain was never more valuable than his potential.”
It is incredibly frustrating to read the trial unfold, but the aftermath of the trial that sparked outrage within millions of people creates a sense of hopefulness that there are people who are willing to fight for change.
This is the easiest 5/5 stars I’ve ever given, not only because the subject matter is extremely important but because Chanel Miller’s writing is exquisitely beautiful, honest and poetic. While the subject matter is heavy and heartbreaking, Chanel Miller does a fantastic job of writing in a way that inspires hope. It emanates courage, which in turn gives strength to others.
What was interesting about this memoir is that it doesn’t only describe how sexual assault can impact the victim, but also how it impacts the loved ones of the victim. It is incredibly moving how Chanel fiercely attempts to shield her younger sister, Tiffany, from all the turmoil happening around them and how Tiffany does everything she can to help Chanel get justice. Multiple women supported Chanel during this difficult time; it is a beautiful display of the power sisterhood has in the face of adversity.
Know My Name is the perfect example of a woman reclaiming herself and turning her pain into something powerful and inspiring. I will recommend this book to every person I meet.
“Hold up your head when the tears come, when you are mocked, insulted, questioned, threatened, when they tell you, you are nothing, when your body is reduced to openings. The journey will be longer than you imagined, trauma will find you again and again. Do not become the ones who hurt you. Stay tender with your power. Never fight to injure, fight to uplift. Fight because you know that in this life, you deserve safety, joy, and freedom. Fight because it is your life. Not anyone else’s.”
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 5 stars
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